Friday, April 11, 2008

178Th Conference thoughts

Last weekend was the 178Th conference of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. I felt truly inspired last weekend and I wanted to share some of my three favorite talks.


To Heal the Shattering Consequences of Abuse
Elder Richard G. Scott

"It is with a deep desire to define a path to relief that I speak to you who suffer the shattering consequences of mental, verbal, physical, and especially sexual abuse. "

"The rising tide of this vicious, abominable sin may not have touched your life personally. Yet it is pervasive enough in the world that it may have touched someone you love. It frequently causes such profound suffering—that can be overcome—that I want to speak of how healing can be attained. It will be done reverently, for my objective is to help heal and not aggravate painful memories."

"Faith in Jesus Christ and in His power to heal provides the abused with the means to overcome the terrible consequences of another’s unrighteous acts."

"During your journey of recovery, accept His invitation to let Him share your burden until you have sufficient time and strength to be healed."

"If you have been abused, Satan will strive to convince you that there is no solution. Yet he knows perfectly well that there is. Satan uses your abuse to undermine your self-confidence, destroy trust in authority, create fear, and generate feelings of despair. Abuse can damage your ability to form healthy human relationships. You must have faith that all of these negative consequences can be resolved; otherwise they will keep you from full recovery. While these outcomes have powerful influence in your life, they do not define the real you."


"My Words...Never Cease"
Elder Jeffery R. Holland

"Today I would like to address the other major doctrine which characterizes our faith but which causes concern to some, namely the bold assertion that God continues to speak His word and reveal His truth, revelations which mandate an open canon of scripture."

"Continuing revelation does not demean or discredit existing revelation. The Old Testament does not lose its value in our eyes when we are introduced to the New Testament, and the New Testament is only enhanced when we read the Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ. In considering the additional scripture accepted by Latter-day Saints, we might ask: Were those early Christians who for decades had access only to the primitive Gospel of Mark (generally considered the first of the New Testament Gospels to be written)—were they offended to receive the more detailed accounts set forth later by Matthew and Luke, to say nothing of the unprecedented passages and revelatory emphasis offered later yet by John? Surely they must have rejoiced that ever more convincing evidence of the divinity of Christ kept coming. And so do we rejoice."

" Please do not misunderstand. We love and revere the Bible....the Bible is the word of God."

"Since it is clear there were Christians long before there was a New Testament or even an accumulation of the sayings of Jesus, it cannot therefore be maintained that the Bible is what makes one a Christian. In the words of esteemed New Testament scholar N. T. Wright, “The risen Jesus, at the end of Matthew’s Gospel, does not say, ‘All authority in heaven and on earth is given to the books you are all going to write,’ but ‘All authority in heaven and on earth is given to me."

“We believe all that God has revealed, all that He does now reveal, and we believe that He will yet reveal many great and important things pertaining to the Kingdom of God.”


One Among the Crowd
Elder Dennis B. Neuenschwander

"In the book of Luke we read of a woman who for 12 long years had suffered from a bleeding condition. She had exhausted her means in search of a medical solution but had found none. In a crowd of people, the woman approached the Savior from behind and touched the hem of His garment. Jesus wanted to know who had touched Him because He felt that power had gone out of Him. The Apostles could not understand the question and asked, “Master, the multitude throng[s] thee and press[es] thee, and sayest thou, Who touched me?” The woman then with great fear and trembling confessed that it was she who had approached Him and had been immediately healed. The Savior sent her away in peace, telling her that her faith had made her whole. She was a woman exhausted and impoverished by her difficulties. Though buried among the thronging mass, she resolutely and quietly pressed forward with a single purpose in mind: to come to the Savior, having faith that He had the power to heal her, that He cared about her and would respond to her need. In this one thing she set herself apart from the crowd. The crowd came to see, but the woman came to be healed."

"We all have faith that just a touch will bring healing to our aching souls and relief to our innermost needs."



These three talks touched me deeply. First, knowing the pain that abuse can bring into someones life but being able to over come the hardships. Second, having the world question our beliefs when all we want is to do good and help others. Lastly, to have enough faith in the Lord that my desire to have children will come true.

For information on these talks, go here.


Tuesday, April 8, 2008

Lets Hear It For Overtime

Way to go Kansas...I guess. We watched the college basketball playoffs last night with a group of friends that we made brackets with. Doug and I both had North Carolina going all the way so we didn't really care who won. Our friend would win $400 if Kansas won so we decided to cheer for them.

Tamara Durika hosted the party











Marcus cooked the treats
















Jenn and Jeff handed out awards


























The winner of the bracket was between Leslie and Mike

Before the game


After the game when Mike (Kansas) won














The men were happy














Heres to another exciting college basketball season

Sunday, April 6, 2008

Stingy

Elder Child spoke during conference about tithing and how he had such a hard time paying his tithing when he was young. It sure didn't sound like he had a hard time. When I was eight years old I was in a photo shoot and earned $100. Looking back I was taken advantage of and should have been paid more but, what are you going to do. Anyway, I had to pay $10 in tithing. $10 was more than I had ever made before and I wasn't very excited about it. As I walked up to give the money to our bishop, I started crying like a little school girl. (I was trying to remember his name but I can't. I can see his face and his brother Bud but can't remember his name. ) It was uncontrollable and I couldn't even see him through my tears. I don't remember a whole lot after that, but I should have been embarrassed if I wasn't. I'm sure my mom was trying to console me but there wasn't a whole lot that you can say to a kid who just gave away ten dollars. Especially since I was so stingy.
When we got married, Tamara knew what she was getting into. My youngest brother Jason is a big fan of our old family videos and showed her one of me when I was eight. On the video I was counting the money I got for my b-day and when I was asked what I was going to spend it on I put it in my pocket and told them I was going to save it. Not much has changed since. Recently I challenged myself to not buy lunch again before I leave my current job in July. I should be take a lunch in the first place but there is almost always food laying around from meetings so I don't have any excuses. It's not much, but considering the bills I have coming up from school it's probably a good practice. We save about 35% of our income and we'll need all we can get. Unless the school gives us some cash money which would be nice.
Anyway, conference was great but the highlight was definitely President Monson telling his story in Priesthood session aobut wiggling his ears. It was sad not to hear from Presidents Hinckley or Faust but Dieter is awesome. I'm a little bit bummed he's been working on losing his accent, but I understand. Conference is always a great motivator and invigorator. A few weeks ago the head of our group went on sabbatical for six months and we had a going away lunch. She gave everybody a bag of gifts. Mine had two candy bars from the UK (she's from there) and a CD from this British band she obsesses about named Supergrass. I also had a bottle of milk. I thought his was odd but most things are where I work and I figured there would be a story or it was to go witht he chocolate bars. Turns out everyone else got a bottle of whiskey and she was thoughtful enough to get me some milk. It's kind of a running joke everytime we go to dinner and I order lemonade-and they don't have it. Anyway, people are aware of our decisions and it'd be a travesty to dissapoint.

Girls Night In

I love conference weekend. There are the obvious reasons, hearing the counseling from our presidency and having questions answered through their talks. Then three are the other reasons, bring able to listen to church in your PJ's and my favorite...an excuse for a girls night in while the man are at priesthood session. It has become a tradition that I plan on continuing in the future. The night was a success with lots of food, great company and the movie Willow playing in the background.

Check out the sexy ladies



























Some little ones and Bear decided to join us as well. We couldn't say no because they are so dang cute. Check out Noah's "Ladies Man" T-shirt which was very appropriate for the evening being that he was the only man among all the ladies.




















With this group it is always guaranteed a good time.



Friday, April 4, 2008

Always a Clownster

Bonnie and John Clowney deserted NYC about a year ago to move onto bigger and better things in Texas. They graced us with a visit not that long ago and I think that a small part of John missed us. We all enjoyed an evening doing what we do best...just chilling.



























Okay, so I know that many of you are thinking, where do I know that girl she looks so familiar. Well, we had a star in our home. I am sure that you have been sitting at home watching one of your favorite TV shows when this commercial comes on that makes you say...hum, was that Eminem that I just saw in a Vagisil commercial?? Nope, that is our Bonnie just having a bad day.

Have a look, she was on The Best Week Ever (as she should be)




Thursday, April 3, 2008

Rapper Snoop Dogg Converts to Mormonism

Thanks to my friend Mia Smith this story came to my attention:

The winner of the April Fools jokes goes to:

Rapper Snoop Dogg converts to Mormonism
By Aaron Nichols
CNN


To read more about this click here

Second place winner of an April Fools joke would have to go to:

Stephen Frandsen for announcing that he was engaged on Face Book.

Was anyone fooled by these or anything else on Tuesday?

Another Day Of Rest

Doug is beginning to think that I am enjoying this resting thing a little to much and I have to agree. It has been so fun to have great friends over to visit and play as much as I can. I have been pretty spoiled. Annette D'Agostini even picked me up from the doctors, I am getting the role treatment these days.

Yesterday Stacey and Luke came over for a little visit. Luke always has a way of cheering me up, look at this face. Also, check out Stacey's new look, she is smoking hot.


Jake and Reagan stopped by with a delicious dinner. Reagan claims that she is not a good cook but I have always loved everything that she has put together. As you can tell, Doug and Jake have as well.


















Tracy Bentley also stopped by. She didn't eat any dinner because we were out of chips and salsa but she did enjoy her Coke. I know that this is Coke Zero (thanks Jeff) but anything is better then Diet Coke to Tracy.









We decided to watch a movie and the Breinholt's brought the movie "Dan in real Life". Okay, we have heard from many people that this is a funny movie so we were able to convince Doug that he wanted to watch this movie. Within five minutes of watching it, he was complaining that it was a chick flick. I have to say that he was right. It was an okay movie but certainly not a funny movie. What was more funny was Jake lifting weights during the movie. Obviously he was really enjoying the movie as well.






We all decided that a really funny movie was "Hot Rod". This movie definitely did not earn the credit that it deserved. I have not heard Doug laugh that hard in a long time. Even better was quoting the movie all night with the Breinholt's reassuring ourselves that we were all pretty funny as well. What I am saying is that you have a choice between, "Dan in Real Life" or "Hot Rod".....go with #2.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Never To Old For A Slumber Party

We have had many great friends come and visit us over these last couple of months but our friends Jeff and Caitlin brought it up a notch by coming and planning a sleep over. They live in Brooklyn which is WAY far way (about 20 minutes in a car but about 1 1/2 hours by train) so it was just easier to stay and let the good times begin.

Of course the night started off with dinner including greasy Chinese and Indian Food. Jeff helped with the dishes, I was so impressed.










We played a game of Settlers and Doug beat us all...of course. The men went over to Joe Hallmark's house to play Halo while Caitlin and I watched trash TV. We continued watching American Idol and The Bachelor while the men came home and played their regular game of Scrabble. Doug and Jeff play this everyday during the week on the computer as they are here. They have had to limit themselves to three games a week because they were playing way to much.
















Sara Mason stopped by to say hello and yes, brought us some M&M's. She knew that I loved the green ones so she put them in a separate container...so thoughtful of her.







It was time for bed so Caitlin and Jeff got to cuddling






Now lets get to the main reason that Caitlin wanted to come stay, her workout in the morning. Caitlin and Doug have been friends sense BYU and she has been trying to get Doug to go running with her for years. Doug is known to say often, "I don't run with girls." I have to mention here that Doug did allow her to come running with him but it was against his better judgement. On a side not, he did say that she did very well.





Now for the reason that Jeff came, chocolate for breakfast. I was going to make chocolate pancakes but the reason for everyone coming over was so that I would stay in bed. We had to go to plan B....chocolate cereal. What is up with no prizes in the cereal boxes anymore???
















I sent everyone off to work and kind of smiled as I curled up back in bed. Thanks for making the night (and morning) so enjoyable Mulcocks;)




Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Bee Prepared

Last night the singles ward had a FHE about being Prepared with food storage. Ann Poulson stopped at nothing to make this an enjoyable night for everyone. If this meant dressing up in a bee costume...so bee it.


I was very impressed with this activity. Ann and her committee went out and bought everything needed for your 72 hour kits which is very important to have when living in the city. All the members of the ward had to do was show up with their money and the kit was theirs, pretty brilliant idea. The night was a success.









Speaking of success, today went very well. All three eggs were transferred and they were all very high grades. We are very hopeful that at least one takes hold and that we become pregnant. I am resting these next couple of days and looking forward to the future.